Questions
Honest answers.
Does my son or daughter need to know I am doing this?
No. Many parents begin quietly. Everything you enter stays private to your family until you say otherwise. When the time is right, you decide when to tell them. The house never reaches out to the one you love without permission.
What if my English is not perfect?
Write in Punjabi, Hindi, Urdu, Gujarati, Tamil, Telugu, Marathi, Bengali, Malayalam, Kannada — any language spoken at home. Someone in the house will read it in your language. Introductions are written in whichever language the family will read.
We are Sikh. Will the house understand our traditions?
Yes. And Hindu, Muslim, Jain, Christian, Buddhist, Zoroastrian. The house was built for all of them. Community elders in each tradition — the sevadar at gurdwara, the imam's wife, the sanghvi at the Jain temple, the Malayali church aunty — are part of the verification network.
How is this different from the biodata WhatsApp groups?
No forwarding. No screenshots. Every biodata is read by hand, one at a time, by a small team who will not share them. Nothing about the one you love is public, indexed, or shown without the family's consent.
What if the family changes its mind?
Fourteen days. Reply to any email with the words "please refund" and it is done. No reason asked, no call scheduled, no retention offer. Pause anytime after that, for any length, from the top of every page.
Does the house take every family that applies?
No. Roughly one in three applications is respectfully declined — most often because the family member is under twenty-six, because the parent is not yet ready to have the conversation, or because the search will be better served elsewhere. The house tells you plainly.
When it is right, you will know before the second call.
Until then, the house will wait with you.